Personal
Personal stories of discovering identity and gender, with every bittersweet emotion.


Gender-Affirming Care Breaks Psychotherapy
The earthquake of gender transition releases the Titan inside

Creating My Signature Curves
Realizing the finer points of gender through handwriting

And I am telling you: LGBTQ+ people are not going back
How's this for clear, brave, balanced authenticity: We won't support politicians who don't represent us.

Gender-Affirming Care Is Not a Panacea
Stress from dysphoria is only half our trouble

The Unexpected Peace of Gender-Affirming Surgery
How losing small parts of myself helped me gain vast insight into humanity

The Last Self-Help Advice I Ever Needed
What would you pay to have a life with all your dreams unfulfilled?


Finding My Femininity Only to Lose It
Humans must balance the masculine and feminine - or suffer the consequences


A Transgender Retrospective
A quarter-century of poor choices and exceptional support

I'm Sorry Mother… Transgender Regret
Have you faced ridicule and continuous coaching not to be who you are? If you are LBG_QIA, then yes, I believe you. If not, I won’t deny, but tell me how?