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Personal stories of discovering identity and gender, with every bittersweet emotion.

Transgender? Get Ready to Blow Up Your Life!

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When I was a child, my friend Jason and I dreamed up a simple method to accomplish the impossible.

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Amethysta Herrick
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Overcoming my Hidden Transphobia

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I admit, as a transgender woman, I still struggle with transphobia.

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Amethysta Herrick
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Ayurveda and the Transgender Soul

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Being true to your deepest identity is good for your health.

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Amethysta Herrick
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Coming Out for the Holidays: A Transgender Winter Solstice

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My mind thrives on making connections.

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Amethysta Herrick
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Things That Actually Matter

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Today I received a letter from a friend of mine named Charly.

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Amethysta Herrick
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Baby’s First Transgender Black Friday

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Since I love to come out swinging, let me state for the record that I hate the term “trans baby.”

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The Perfect Gender Transition

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So far, this isn’t it

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Amethysta Herrick
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Operation Name Change: Mission Accomplished

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“You are being served with documents…”

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Amethysta Herrick
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Death of a Name: On Trans People, Transition, and Integration

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I had to go to the courthouse today.

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Amethysta Herrick
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Earning my Warrior Name

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In the article “Feral Cats Make Me a Better Woman,” I discussed the Warriors series of books as an allegory for human life in general, and the transgender experience in particular. I will be using terminology introduced in that article here, and if you find yourself immediately confused, it might

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Amethysta Herrick
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Feral Cats Make Me a Better Woman

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My son discovered a series of books in the past year. In the United States, the series is called Warriors; it originated in the UK from several authors publishing under the pseudonym Erin Hunter. The official web site is here; you can read more about the series here. My son

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Amethysta Herrick
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Changes to Cognition Due to Hormone Therapy

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In the last article, I promised to discuss how my cognition — my thoughts, emotions, and methodology of observing the world around me — have changed since I began Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) in July, 2022. I was surprised by how rapidly inner changes occurred. I still experience revelations regularly, which has

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Amethysta Herrick
Psychology